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6 Simple But Effective Steps To Make Your Man Ultra Horny

So you would like sex more often? Read this guide to find ways to make your guy horny and want more sex.

Make Him Horny

Do you think your man has ‘gone off’ you? Would you like to make him so horny that he cannot leave you alone?

Firstly you need to understand that above all else, men are very simple, visual creatures, and it will not take a lot of effort (in general!) to make him hornier.

Read this guide for hints and tips on how to turn your man into a super-horny love machine!!

You are still attractive to him, even if you have had a baby/gained weight

Men do not like change or upheaval usually, so he would be much happier staying with you, than moving on to pastures new.

Your guy will not notice the few extra pounds that you may be carrying since you had your baby; but they do find confidence attractive. Be proud of the fact that your rounded tummy was a home to the baby you created, and also bear in mind that it is unlikely that he looks exactly the same as he did when you first met.

The bottom line is, people change as they grow older; if you are not as confident about your appearance anymore, then think of ways to disguise the bits that you don’t like, and accentuate the ‘good’ bits. [Read - How To Look HOT and Sexier]

Believe me, your guy will feel incredibly horny if he comes home from work to find your top two buttons oh-so-casually undone, and exposing a curve of your breast. Or maybe you could wear a skirt just a little bit too short, and hint to him about the silk stockings you have on underneath it…he will be raring to go!

Stress can make a difference to how horny he feels

Some men find they are under a lot of stress, at work, for example, and this can manifest itself in lack of bedroom interest; the first thing I must say to you there, is do not take it personally.

If his lack of interest has happened recently, then try and be understanding, and help ease his stresses, by maybe running him a nice hot bubble bath, or offering a foot massage. [Read - Dealing With Stress Naturally – For The People Who Want a Relaxed Life]

When I say be understanding, that also includes asking him how his day has been, and if there is anything you can do to make him feel better; men (as much as women) like to be nurtured, and feel as though someone actually cares about how they feel.

If you also offer to soap him all over when he is in the bath, I think you will find that would also spark resurgence in his interest.

He may not want you to jump on him, if he’s ‘off it’ temporarily

Most men would find that too direct an approach, especially if they have been feeling ‘off it’ lately; there is an old saying: ‘Softly, softly, catch the monkey.’

In other words, be subtle; he might get scared off if you answer the door in nothing but a pair of high heels (there again, he might not; but we are assuming he’s not in the mood, ok?).

This is where subtlety comes into being; men like to imagine what might be under your clothing, (even though he knows, but bear with me here,) and therefore a hint of what’s there can be far hornier than full-frontal nudity. [Read - Things That Men Want In Bed But Not Telling You]

Try wearing a tight-ish T-shirt, without a bra; your nipples will be visible, and he will notice that; in turn that will lead his imagination into thinking ‘I wonder if she’s not wearing panties, either?’

Come out of the bedroom wearing a silk robe that you have ‘forgotten’ to tie up; give him a glimpse of the goodies underneath, and then quickly tie it closed.

Watch porn together

This may seem quite strange to you if you do not usually do this, but honestly, most guys will get ultra-horny while watching porn. (You may also find that it helps you get in the mood too.)

Try and arrange a time when the kids are out, close the drapes, get him to put his feet up with maybe a bottle of beer at his side, and then say you want to watch a movie.

Watch his face when he realizes just what kind of movie you have in mind! [Read - 99.9% of Men Watch Porn – Is It Really Bad To Watch It]

Do not pressure him

Please do not nag about your lack of sex at the moment; remember that a lot of the time, men actually feel that we are the ones who are not horny enough.

The worst thing that you could say would be ‘Why don’t we make love anymore?’ because to be honest, he may not even know the reason himself.

Now I’m not suggesting that you ignore this important aspect of your togetherness as a couple, just be patient.

If the problem persists, then there may be something physical going on, in which case I would suggest a visit to your doctor; but for the time being, wait and see if this is a temporary hiccup.

Ban sex

I can hear you cry, ‘Why would I want to ban sex, when I really want sex?’

The answer to that is if you tell a man that he cannot have something, then he really wants it! (See, I did tell you that they are simple creatures!) [More in details - How to Please Your Man in Bed – What Do Experts Say]

Try playing a game of strip poker, or whatever you fancy, where each person gets to kiss the part of the body that has just had an item of clothing removed (ie if you take off your bra, then he is ‘allowed’ to kiss your breast, and vice-versa.)

Tell him anything is allowed except for intercourse, and that will be the one thing that he does want! [Read - 7 Fun and Sexy Games to Spice Up Your Love Life]

All in all, I hope that I have given you a few ideas on how to make your man horny; if he just isn’t in the mood though, rather than it being a long-term problem, you have two options…masturbate yourself in front of him (guaranteed to make him horny), or buy a vibrator…same outcome!! ENJOY!!

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