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Why Do Married Men Watch Porn (Hint: It’s Not What You Are Thinking)

Many men watch porn, whether in a relationship/married or not; they are visual creatures, and masturbation to porn allows them to have almost immediate gratification, without the need to worry whether their wife/partner is ready. It is a perfectly normal pastime and nothing whatsoever to be ashamed about.

Men Got CaughtWatching Porn is Perfectly Normal:

We hear many women asking themselves if there is something wrong with them if their husband watches porn; the answer is absolutely not.

Many men do not associate what is happening on screen with their wife; it is merely a fantasy world that allows them escapism from the real world of worry and stress, and really is no different from their wife fantasising over the likes of Brad Pitt or George Clooney.

The watching of porn also releases a chemical known as Dopamine into the brain; this chemical gives men a natural ‘high,’ pretty much the same as the release of endorphins during climax, and could be one of the reasons that they enjoy it so much.

Men Do Not Tend to Compare Their Wife to The Image on Screen:

Many women are worried that they do not measure up in some way to the ‘beautiful people’ they see on a porn movie; they worry about a baby belly or stretch marks. Just remember ladies that your husband can have exactly the same kind of insecurities about his body; not everyone is perfect in real life. [Read - Things That Men Want In Bed But Not Telling You]

Porn is just fantasy, no more nor less; what appears to be a perfect love-making scene on the screen, where the man stays hard for hours, and the woman has multiple orgasms (while keeping her make-up intact) may take hours to actually film.

There is a make-up artist on standby to ensure that they both look perfect, and a lot of the men have to resort to using chemical products (such as Viagra) to keep their erection.

Watching Porn Can Open Lines of Communication:

Men do get turned on easily by images; many of them may like to try something that they have seen while watching porn, such as role play situations, or some light whipping or bondage, but are too shy to ask their wife directly.

Watching porn can allow them to say what they would like to try: ‘I have seen this couple pretending to be doctor/nurse (or any other role play scenario), and wondered if we could try that?’ [Read - 7 Fun and Sexy Games to Spice Up Your Relationship]

Women As Well As Men Get Turned On By Porn:

Again I cannot stress this enough, the watching of porn, by either sex, is perfectly normal; do not be shy or embarrassed to admit to your husband that you like to watch it as well.

It also gives you the opportunity to tell him about something you would like to try, no matter how bizarre the fantasy may be…it could be something like you would love to be tied to the bed, while he melts ice cubes on your nipples; or you want him to pretend to ravage you, and rip your panties off, while you feebly say ‘No,’ (while obviously meaning YES!) [Read - How to Please a Man In Bed (The Sex Goddess Formula)]

He will not laugh or scoff at you; he will simply be delighted that he has an open-minded wife who is not averse to trying new things.

Many Couples Do Watch Porn Together:

If you feel left out that your husband watches porn without you, then join in! Choose a peaceful time, while the children are staying with Grandma; close the blinds, have a glass of wine, and relax!

Some men have problems with premature ejaculation; if this is the case, watching porn can help. If you engage in a mutual masturbation session while watching porn, you will probably find that he can last a lot longer, when you get to the main event, later on.

This can also be a way of ensuring that you get at least one orgasm, and then enjoy your second in bed; why should men have all the fun? [Read - Tempting Light Bondage Ideas To Achieve an Powerful Orgasm]

There is something deliciously ‘naughty’ about watching porn together, (especially if it’s a touch of ‘afternoon delight’), so go ahead, join in and you will find out why he has been watching it all this time!


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  • luke

    “The watching of porn also releases a chemical known as Dopamine into the brain; this chemical gives men a natural ‘high,’ pretty much the same as the release of endorphins during climax, and could be one of the reasons that they enjoy it so much.”
    It’s not the watching, but the orgasm which releases Dopamine, no wonder the feeling is “much the same as [...] during climax”.
    Question: Why does everyone think porn is a good thing? If women are hurt by their men watching porn, then why watch it? If disrespect has a name; it’s porn!
    Cheers

    Reply
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