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7 Steps To Write a Striking Online Dating Profile

Learning how to write an online dating profile properly can spell the difference between being ignored and getting noticed on online dating sites.

Online Dating ProfileYou join an online dating site to meet new people and possibly find the love of your life, but if you don’t get noticed, that’s never going to happen.

In any social situation, making a good first impression is very important. The same goes for the online dating scene.

If you want people to notice you, you need to make a good first impression. How do you do that?

Your profile is the first thing other site members use to gauge whether or not they would want to get to know you better.

If your profile is poorly-written, chances are, those who view your profile wouldn’t give you a second look, or worse you might attract the same people you are trying to avoid.

A well-written online dating profile should be clear, engaging, welcoming, and definitely not cookie-cutter. It is meant to introduce you to the rest of the online dating community, so you need to be sure that yours stands out.

Things to Consider When Writing an Online Dating Profile

Before you set out on the task of writing a new online dating profile or revamping your old one, there are some things you need to consider first.

Ask yourself these questions before logging on to your account and creating your profile.

  • What type of person you want to attract

    ? Everyone has a “type” and to make sure that most of the people who approach you online belong to this particular type, then you need to have a specific target audience in mind and make sure what you write would appeal to these types of people.

  • What image do you want to present? Do you want to appear fun, playful and just looking for a good time, or do you want people to think you’re a serious person looking for a serious relationship. This can help you weed out those who aren’t interested in the same things as you are.
  • Do you have any idea what your best qualities are? No one is supposed to know you better than you know yourself, but sometimes you don’t realize just what a great person you are. If you can’t put your finger on what you can honestly say are your best qualities, ask close friends to help you.

Writing the Profile

When you’ve answered all the questions and you’ve figured out what it is you want to convey on your profile, it’s time to sit down in front of your computer and start writing.

Even if you already have a clear idea of what you want to say on your profile, it is still possible to commit certain faux pas when you’re filling in the blanks.

Here are some tips to help you avoid writing down things that you will regret later on.

# Be honest

Just because you don’t meet these people face to face, it doesn’t mean you can fool them forever.

If you’re serious about online dating, you’ll eventually have to go on a date with one of these people you meet online. This means, if you lied about something on your profile, he or she will eventually find out.

You’ll be surprised about how many men and women lie about their age or their occupation on their online dating profiles.

Saying you’re much younger or older than you really are or exaggerating what you do for a living may get a lot of potential dates on the hook, but it usually ends up in disaster.

# Don’t divulge too much personal information about yourself.

The internet is full of potential mates, but it’s also full of the creepy kind of people you would definitely want to avoid. It’s one thing to collect admirers, but picking up a stalker along the way isn’t really the ideal scenario.

Aside from personal info, avoid writing down specifics when writing about where you work, places you like to go or activities that you like to do, so that none from who reads your profile can follow you around.

# Choose a proper username.

If the dating site doesn’t require you to display your first name, make sure that the username you use suits you.

Refrain using adjectives that don’t describe you at all and if you want people to take you seriously, don’t use usernames with a double meaning or those that are outright vulgar.

# Write a catch headline.

Your headline is the first thing people see on your profile other than your name and your profile picture. They’re usually short blurbs or captions that go right beside your picture when users are browsing various profiles.

Make sure you write something clever and enticing that gives people a sneak peak of what you have to offer.

# Pay attention to spelling and formatting.

Some members of online dating communities, especially the younger ones, think it’s cool to mix up uppercase and lowercase letters or using numbers to replace certain letters.

It’s actually not.

You may all be speaking the same language, but if people don’t understand what you’ve written on your profile, they’re just going to skip your profile and move on to the next.

# How you describe yourself is important.

In most, if not all, online dating sites, there’s always a large text box for you to fill out with a short paragraph or two to describe yourself. Use it, and use it wisely.

There are some profiles that just say “Send me a message to find out more about me.” While that may have sounded clever when they wrote it, the reality is, it’s not.

People will not waste their time sending a message to someone who may or may not be what they’re looking for.

There are also those who begin their short description with “I can’t believe I’m doing this!” or “I have no idea what to say about myself.”

These tell the reader that you really don’t want to do this or that you’re not taking the whole online dating scene seriously, and they’ll just go ahead and find someone who actually wants to be found.

When you describe yourself, keep it concise. You should start with describing your physical attributes (again, don’t lie about your height or weight), and then work your way to your likes and dislikes and some other things you may want to add. Be clear and specific, and make sure you use a friendly tone.

# Your profile picture matters.

People who do not upload a photo to their online dating profile tend to get overlooked more than those who have pictures of themselves. Online dating is just like meeting someone in person for the first time.

How you look matters, which is why your profile picture should make you look good.

Choose one of your best recent shots so that those viewing your profile will have an idea of what the person they’re interested in looks like.

If you don’t have a recent photo, take one. With the right lighting and camera angle, you can produce a decent photo that doesn’t look the same as what appears on your driver’s license.

If you have a photo you like that includes other people, crop them out of the picture so that the person viewing your profile doesn’t get confused as to which one is the profile owner.

Lastly, don’t upload someone else’s photo. Again, lying on your profile always has disastrous consequences.

The key to creating a great online dating profile is to make sure that you project who you really are. It doesn’t matter if you don’t get as much profile views as the other people. What’s important is that those who do notice you are interested in you and not who you’re pretending to be.


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